I’ve never been in that situation, so far, but due to my size and shape, I was offered it once. I was quite intrigued by the idea, mainly because I was neither the feeder or the feedee. A gentleman and I started a conversation on a site that carried on for days. He was a feeder and his wife wanted to be a feedee and hoped to gain wait in the process. He asked me if I liked to cook and was I good a cook and I said yes to both. After a few days of discussion, he asked if I would move in with them, and do the cooking and to make sure she ate what I cooked. He told me she would not only be his submissive, but mine as well and would wait on me hand and foot… all I had to do was cook three complete meals a day. Like I said, I was intrigued but they lived clear across the country and I had no desire to move.
Like Molly mentioned, having someone being in control of what I eat and when I eat is a hard limit for me. I spent years having society dictate to me what I should and shouldn’t eat, and being made to feel guilty for what I did eat. In many ways being a feedee sounded so freeing, but there was one problem with it. I also had no desire to gain more weight.
I’ve been this same weight for 30 years. I’m convinced it’s a set point weight for me. I really have no desire to lose weight… every time I’ve tried, I’ve always gained it all back again. I’ve become comfortable with the size I am.
But I still find the proposition interesting.